Why Is Authenticity So Hard? How to Actually Be Yourself in a Performative World “Why does it feel so scary to just be... me?” Have you ever walked away from a conversation feeling like you performed rather than connected? Ever posted something online, then deleted it because it felt “too real”? Ever quieted your truth to avoid being misunderstood? We live in a world that celebrates authenticity... on the surface. But in practice? We’re praised for filters, rewarded for conformity, and taught early on to blend in if we want to belong. The result? We’re exhausted—not from being ourselves, but from editing ourselves all day long. A 2021 global study by The Values Institute found that 73% of people admit they rarely show their full, true selves—at work, online, or even in their closest relationships. Not because they don’t want to. But because they fear rejection, judgment, or “getting it wrong.” So let’s unpack this. Why is authenticity so hard—and more importantly, how do we...
Navigating Career Uncertainty How to Make Peace With Not Having It All Figured Out “What if I never find the ‘right’ career path?” That question can haunt you silently. At work. At dinner. While scrolling LinkedIn. It doesn't matter if you're 24 or 44—it’s the quiet fear that maybe… you missed the train. Or boarded the wrong one. In a world obsessed with five-year plans, personal brands, and career ladders, not knowing exactly where you’re going feels like failure. But what if uncertainty isn’t the enemy? What if it’s your greatest teacher? In a 2022 World Economic Forum study, over 59% of professionals globally reported that they are actively reconsidering their career paths— not because of burnout or layoffs, but because they feel disconnected from meaning . If that’s you, you’re not behind. You’re just human. Let’s talk about how to navigate this beautifully complex space without losing your calm or confidence. 1. Stop Believing You’re Supposed to Know Already The...